Jude on Harmonica

This went on for about an hour. (Mona's like, "Heeeeyy yaaa'llll.)

The Date

Jude and I went on a date yesterday while Daddy was in class. The line-up was the library, Uncle Cheetah's Soup Shop, and then home again to read our new books before his nap.

But first, he shoveled the driveway. We couldn't leave in the state it was in.

Before:

After:

On the way to the library, I drilled him on his age and full name. He's one, and his name is Jude Donna Klooster.

After picking out some books, we headed to the soup shop. He helped me sample a few before we settled on a cup of jalapeno corn chowder and a grilled cheese sandwich.

He ate with his feet up on the table, singing the Veggie Tales theme song.

The 30-ish waitress came out once and he became obsessed with her, smirking and practically giving her a wink. He said, "I'm flirting," minus the "r" sound, which makes everyone in his vicinity want to squish his face. I'm just guessing.

Getting to spend a full day with him is so great. He changes quickly, and sometimes I feel like I need to get to know him again on the weekend.

Last night we were reading books again before bed. I could tell he wasn't tired, so we got under the covers and whispered for awhile. He squished my cheeks between his palms and laughed.

It was a good end to our day. He knows how to show me a good time.

Internet Candy

I haven't been taking the time to write any posts about family life lately, so to make sure it doesn't seem like we've died, herein is some Internet Candy that is getting me through February.

My routine lately after Jude is in bed is to make myself a hot cup of green tea and curl up on the couch with five blankets and a laptop. Typically I'm too tired to clean or do anything productive. Instead, here's where I end up.


1) PINTEREST. This Interweb Monster plays right into my weaknesses. Pinterest.com is a black hole. Or you could call it a hobby, if you're feeling polite. If you're a visual person, you'll love it. It involves "pinning" things to a virtual pin-board, like this:


It's a visual collection of things you love. Essentially it allows you to curate collections of things under any category you want, using images. Oh yes.

Here are mine, if you care to peek. It makes me a little giddy in a Cabin Fever sort of way to look at them. One of them is "destinations", and I'm pinning things in lots of bright colors that are slowly soothing my snow vision. Joining is weird. You don't instantly get an account; they put you on a waiting list. But it's only a few days long and then you get an invite.

2) AMUSING BLOGS. Like Irina Werning's Back to the Future, where she finds old childhood photos, presumably of people she knows, then helps them to recreate their outfit, pose, facial expression perfectly as an adult. I don't want to make any assumptions about your mental state this time of year, but I Laughed. Out. Loud.

Disclaimer: some partial nudity. Picture someone recreating a baby photo taken while naked and holding an accordion.

3) YOUTUBE. Of course. Best clip I've found lately is Man Cold. Enjoy, ladies.

I need to find a good book.

Or do some yoga.

I can feel my muscles liquefying.

I hope y'all are holed up and cozy, like we are. Just a few short weeks until March, then April near the end of which winter finally ends :)

Put a Bird on It

Birds are nice. They flutter about contentedly, they are fine-boned and pretty, and when something doesn't sit right with them they get to fly away. Could this be the root of the overwhelming bird trend in arty circles?

This video was posted on DesignSponge, from the sketch comedy/TV show "Portlandia" which mocks quote-unquote sub-culture in Portland. I laughed, hard.

Put a bird on it.



Are feathers and bikes next? I hope they stay under the radar for awhile yet, because I'm presently coating my walls with them.

Here's another one: "Is it Local?" When things have gone too far...



"I don't know that I can speak to that level of intimate knowledge about him..."

P.S. For all of us who lack access to IFC, there are Portlandia clips here, on Hulu.

Tribute

Froukje Cnossen Geertsma
1919 - 2011

My Grandma passed away two weeks ago. She was 91 years old and had been in Hospice care for awhile. Most people say this when a loved one dies, but she was a remarkable woman.


She was born in the Netherlands, lived through the second world war, and immigrated to America with her husband Marten, my grandpa, when the war was over. They began their life together in California, where my grandpa got into the dairy business, then later to Washington where they learned English and started up their own farm.

The photo above is Grandma in her nurse's uniform. This was before the end of the war, marriage, immigration and all of the kids. She was about 25 here, and right in the middle of World War II. She told us that the hospital where she worked as a psychiatric nurse was bombed once. Afterward, she helped transport injured patients to a safer location in wheelbarrows.

At right, with her sister

There were some British allied troops - paratroopers - who took refuge in that hospital during that time. One of them was a young man named Frank. He had been injured, and needed some care from the nurses. He and my grandma became friends after awhile. He had looked for my grandma for years after the war and eventually found out she had immigrated to America. (I think he had a crush on her.) They started writing letters, and did so into their old age.

I met him once while I was living in England for a semester in college. He said that she had helped to save his life during the war. The stories he told me and the way he referred to her and the other Dutch people involved put goosebumps on my skin. "If it weren't for them, we would've been dead. If they had been discovered harboring us, they would've been too."

He cried when he saw me get off the train. He still kept a painting of marigolds on the wall of his home in a little English town, because she gave him a bunch of them on his birthday. He said the marigolds and my grandma were the best thing that happened to him during those years. Later he became a prisoner of war in a German camp. He didn't talk about that part.

Grandma sometimes told us about her brothers too, Pieter and Bouwe. Both were in the Dutch Underground, and received medals of honor after the war from the Prince of the Netherlands for "fighting the tyranny of Hitler". I'm a wee bit proud of them for that.



These are their naturalization papers, from around the time they immigrated through New York City. Grandma said she remembers seeing the Statue of Liberty over the water as their boat came in. Here are their passports too. I love old passports. They seem other-worldly.

Things got to rolling pretty quickly after that. Hello, procreation.

With their first three children: George and the twins, Emma and Janetta

A few more now... my dad is on her lap. He was #5.

They had ten children together - six boys and four girls. The photo above shows eight of them; someone super-imposed the youngest two in the bottom right corner (ha). Grandma was a dairy wife with her hands full for years, but she was always classy.

By the time Grandma died she had 40 grandchildren and over 50 great-grandchildren. The 52nd (I think) was born on the day of her funeral. Most of them still live in Washington, with a few scattered throughout California, Arizona, Colorado and Michigan.

Here's a picture of her, at left, with my other grandma on the right. She was prim and proper most of the time, but had a weakness for slap-stick humor and cracked up all the time when her sons were around, tears rolling down her cheeks sometimes. She had a huge smile.

Telling their stories makes it feel like not everything has been lost.

We'll miss you.

A squirrel, a fire, pizza...and my legs

How many things can a two-year-old human marvel over in less than two minutes?

He started this clip out (below) yelling through the sliding glass window at a squirrel in one of our backyard oaks.

"Squiwel! Get down out da twee! Squiwel! Come down ta Jude's house!"

(He'd been there doing that for a few minutes before I got the camera out. Have I mentioned he's bossy?)

In between he gets distracted by something he colored at Donna's which is now on the fridge. ("Oooo, Donna made.")

Notice the rat's nest on the back of his head. Typical.

Five seconds later he's running over to the fireplace. I think he saw the firewood on the deck and thought of it that way. "Fi-ah... I see fi-ah," he says.

In the next breath he brings up pizza (?), says "I wunning" (an update he loves to give everyone about himself while trotting), then turns to me, buries his face in my legs and laughs.

For your viewing pleasure:

Fake Smiling